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Attended vs. Unattended Ash Scattering: Which Is Right for You?



Choosing how to say goodbye to a loved one is deeply personal. At Ashes2Oceans, we offer two compassionate options for sea memorials: attended and unattended ash scatterings. Both provide meaningful ways to return your loved one to the ocean with dignity, but each offers a unique experience depending on your needs, location, and preferences.


Attended Ash Scattering Memorials

An attended ash scattering memorial allows you, your family, and close friends to be present on the ocean during the ceremony. Departing from the beautiful Channel Islands Harbor in California, these personalized services offer a serene and intimate setting for reflection and release.


What to Expect:

  • Private chartered vessel with licensed captain and crew

  • Ceremony led by your family or officiant

  • Option to play music, share memories, or perform rituals

  • Eco-friendly biodegradable urns included

  • Approx. 1–1.5 hours on the water


Best For:

  • Families located in or near Southern California

  • Those wanting to participate directly in the farewell

  • Individuals who find healing through ceremony and community

Locations: Channel Islands, CA (Ventura County)


Contact us to reserve your date: ashes2oceans.com/contact


Unattended Ash Scattering Services

For families unable to travel or who prefer a quiet, hands-off experience, we offer unattended ash scatterings. Our caring team handles every detail on your behalf, providing peace of mind and professional service.


What to Expect:

  • You mail us the ashes using our secure USPS-approved kit

  • Scattering takes place off the Channel Islands coast

  • We provide photos, coordinates, and a certificate of scattering

  • Optional video package available


Best For:

  • Families across the U.S. who can’t attend in person

  • Those who want a simple, respectful farewell from afar

  • Individuals who want a professional team to carry out the process

Available Nationwide – We serve all 50 states.


Begin the process with an unattended memorial: Start here


Which Option Is Right for You?

Choosing between attended and unattended depends on your family’s needs, availability, and the kind of closure you’re seeking. Both offer:

  • A peaceful return to nature

  • Eco-conscious practices

  • A respectful and loving tribute

No matter which path you choose, Ashes2Oceans is here to guide you every step of the way.


Let us help you honor their memory beautifully.


Book your memorial today or schedule a call: ashes2oceans.com

 
 
 

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